When a family member gets married, it can be initially tricky to understand your role in terms of the new spouse. Understanding your relationship to your nephew's wife helps you approach and interact with her. Once you know how you relate to her, you can better treat her as a new addition to your family.
Bond Is the Word
Your relationship with your nephew's wife is largely determined by your relationship with him. If you have taken the time to be present in his life, he will see you as an important figure. The more important you are to him, the more likely he is to include you in his life with new his wife. Thus, she will be much more like a niece to you than simply your nephew's wife. Your bond with his wife will be similar to your bond with your nephew -- the closer you are to him, the closer you will be to her.
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