How to Love a Muslim

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There are many instances in which Muslims and non-Muslims date, fall in love, and even get married. Very traditional and strict Muslims are often (but not always) against the concept of dating entirely, especially dating non-Muslims, but there are a lot of real world examples of Muslims in happy relationships and marriages with people of other religions.

1 Learn about Islam

Learn about Islam if you don't know about it already. Islam is a complex and ancient religion. There are a lot of things about this religion that you may not understand at first. However, in order to truly love your Muslim partner, you should make the effort to learn these things, for example, prayer rituals. Muslims pray numerous times a day. Often, a Muslim will stop what they are doing in order to move aside and pray. Another thing that you will have to learn about are Islam holidays, such as Ramadan (a month-long fast). If you can understand and appreciate Islam fully, you will have a much more fulfilling and connected relationship with your partner.

2 Be understanding

Be understanding. If you are not Muslim yourself, your significant other's family might object to you being involved with their son or daughter. That is because traditionally Muslims are expected to date other Muslims. It is slightly more acceptable for a male Muslim to date outside of his religion than for a woman. If you understand this at first, maybe you will be able to develop a relationship with his or her family that will lead to a mutual appreciation.

3 Talk about your future plans

Talk about your future plans. If you plan on eventually marrying and raising children with your Muslim partner, you should definitely discuss which religion you plan on raising your children as, if any. This is to avoid further problems from arising down the line. It's better to have everything carefully planned before you start getting serious.

4 Learn about your Muslim partner's homeland

Learn about your Muslim partner's homeland (if they are not from the U.S.). There are a lot of American Muslims, but if your Muslim partner is from a country in the Middle East, Malaysia, or any other country in the world, it would be a great idea for you to learn about their background. Cuisine, music, arts, tradition--there is no greater way to show love for someone than to show interest in who they are and in their background.

5 Be sensitive

Be sensitive. Be respectful of your partner's religion and don't make stereotypes. Don't make insensitive comments, as no one likes insulting comments, especially from a loved one.